What if you live with old and stubborn parents?My parents are over 80.They are stubborn and critical.Most often they make mistakes,I point out,they neveraccept and retort that it's my fault.They aremuddle-headed,even don't have common sense,theyhold

What if you live with old and stubborn parents?My parents are over 80.They are stubborn and critical.Most often they make mistakes,I point out,they neveraccept and retort that it's my fault.They aremuddle-headed,even don't have common sense,theyhold
What if you live with old and stubborn parents?
My parents are over 80.They are stubborn and critical.
Most often they make mistakes,I point out,they never
accept and retort that it's my fault.They are
muddle-headed,even don't have common sense,they
hold old ideas and never absorb new concepts.Sometimes
I ignore their shortcomings and pretend to agree with
them 100 percent on the surface and disagree 100 percent
in the heart.I dare not discuss about heavy topic such
as politics or raising child but light subjects such as
cooking or eating.Otherwise a little quarrel will trigger
a scold and criticizing.If you don't follow what they
say,you will be considered ungratful guy and they hate
you.A little thing will be taught and explained ten
times or more so that they can understand a little.
I really get tired of them,I want to write them off.
What should I do,our comrades?
I plead with you to give me some advice.

What if you live with old and stubborn parents?My parents are over 80.They are stubborn and critical.Most often they make mistakes,I point out,they neveraccept and retort that it's my fault.They aremuddle-headed,even don't have common sense,theyhold
跟又老又固执的父母生活在一起,你会怎么办?

我的父母80多岁高龄了.他们既固执又挑剔. 很多时候他们会犯错误,如果我提出来,他们不但不接受,还说是我不对. 他们是昏庸的,而且也没有常识,他们坚持旧的观念,从不接受新的思想.很多时候,我无视他们的缺点,假装百分百同意他们的观点,当然内心里是一百个不同意.我不敢跟他们争论政治和抚养小孩,只能说些烹饪和饮食.不然小小的争吵也会引起责骂和批评.如果你不同意他们的观点,你会被认为是忘恩负义,他们会恨你.一个小事情也要说上十遍以上或者更多次,他们才会明白一点.我实在是太累了,我真想不理他们.
朋友们,我应该怎么办才好呢?

如何与上了年纪并固执的老年父母相处?
我的父母都八十多岁了,他们有些固执并且爱挑替.很多时候他们做错事,我指出来,他们从不接受并点辩博说是我的错.他们也有些昏庸,甚至缺乏常识,他们老是老一套,不爱接受新事物.有些时候我不去理会他们的缺点,表面上假装百分百的同意,其实心里一百个不乐意.我不敢跟他们讨论一些沉重些的话题,比如政治啦,辅养孩子啦,而挑一些比如做什么饭,吃什么的话题来说.否则的话就...

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如何与上了年纪并固执的老年父母相处?
我的父母都八十多岁了,他们有些固执并且爱挑替.很多时候他们做错事,我指出来,他们从不接受并点辩博说是我的错.他们也有些昏庸,甚至缺乏常识,他们老是老一套,不爱接受新事物.有些时候我不去理会他们的缺点,表面上假装百分百的同意,其实心里一百个不乐意.我不敢跟他们讨论一些沉重些的话题,比如政治啦,辅养孩子啦,而挑一些比如做什么饭,吃什么的话题来说.否则的话就会引来他们的责骂和批评.如果你不按他们意思去做,就会被看成不懂事的孩子而被厌恶.一个很小的事就要教他们好几遍,来回解释他们才能明白一点.我真有点受不了他们,真想一走了之.我该怎么做呢,我的朋友们?

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对他们应该好一点``
不好的事就让着点嘛 毕竟他们是你的父母
再顽固也改变不了这个事实
老了都会有点的

如果住在一起的父母是老顽固
My parents are over 80.They are stubborn and critical. 我父母已经80余岁了。他们都又挑剔又顽固。
Most often they make mistakes,I point out,they never accept and retort that it's my fault.有好几回他们犯错被我指...

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如果住在一起的父母是老顽固
My parents are over 80.They are stubborn and critical. 我父母已经80余岁了。他们都又挑剔又顽固。
Most often they make mistakes,I point out,they never accept and retort that it's my fault.有好几回他们犯错被我指了出来，他们不但不愿接受，还反诬说我才是错的。They are muddle-headed,even don't have common sense,they hold old ideas and never absorb new concepts.他们头脑糊涂，甚至很多常识都不知道，满脑子旧式思想，而且从不接受新观念。Sometimes I ignore their shortcomings and pretend to agree with them 100 percent on the surface and disagree 100 percent in the heart.有时我忽略他们的缺点，表面上假装百分百地服从他们，实际上心里是一百个不乐意。I dare not discuss about heavy topic such as politics or raising child but light subjects such as cooking or eating.我避免讨论政治，子女教育这类严肃话题，只谈些吃吃喝喝这类无关紧要的轻松话题。Otherwise a little quarrel will trigger a scold and criticizing.否则一点的不同观点都会引来一顿狠批。If you don't follow what they
say,you will be considered ungratful guy and they hate you.如果你不服从他们的话就会被视为白眼狼被他们指责。A little thing will be taught and explained ten times or more so that they can understand a little. 一点小事都要解释十几遍才能让他们明白一点点。I really get tired of them, I want to write them off. 我真是受够他们了，我想跟他们断绝关系。
What should I do,our comrades?我要怎么办啊同志们？
I plead with you to give me some advice求你们给我些建议

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